Sunday, September 13, 2009

The Impression of Postivity

Positivity,

how positive shud one be?

is there a limit on being positive?

how about smiling and being cheerful?

how much is too much?

does being cheerful and optimistic make you a naive dork?

I'm talking about being positive in the face of adversity, and not letting it bring you down, I know the difference between being positive in a real way, and dreaming an ideal dream and living in La La Land.

I like thinking happy thought, finding the silver lining, and i totally believe in "تفائلو بالخير تجدوه" u attract what u think.

The big question is, why do some ppl feel irritated when dealing with someone who has a positive attitude?

why do they fight them, put them down, accuse them of living a lie?

is it a lie?

4 comments:

frogman said...

i don't think it is a lie, i just think that negative people believe that they are realists and that their way is the only way..

you would usually find that negative people are also opinionated, otherwise they wouldn't be so negative because they would be open to other options..

ignore them.. be positive.. and visiting La La Land every now and then isn't always a bad thing

On-The-Rocks said...

it might be a lie and it might not be. it depends on the person, some people fake their positive attitude, not happy but pretending to be in a good mood, and thats what happened with me when i was fat. i guess thats why people "e7awlooon ekasrooon meyadeeef" happy people because no one is that happy all the time, well at least not a lot of people

Saudi Dawn said...

Frogman:
thanx for the moral support, i totally agree..

On-The-Rocks:
I agree, no one is 100% 24/7 happy, and that's not what im saying, it's that's even when ur sad, u can be positive and see the bright side, و تقدر تقول خيره مهما كانت الضيقه
it's about faith in Allah i think, no?

On-The-Rocks said...

yes you're right,

الايمان بالله شي مهم، و الحزن أو الاكتئاب يروح مع العبادة و التقرب من الله