I sat with my lady friends, over brunch, and talked about life, one thing led to another, and the discussion moved to talking about guys, no big surprise there :-p
The majority were still unmarried, hopeful for a romance, wondering about the best way to go about it.
the ladies discussed how zodiac signs, social background, friendships, and rank among siblings effecting a person, and analyzed the compatibilities for themselves, which was fun. :-D
they discussed the best way to attract a good candidate for commitment, and some supported not waiting but going ahead and making the first move, maintaining that the guy has to peruse them.
the title "Why men love Bitches?" was mentioned, as the principle of setting a high standard of respect for themselves is essential to avoid being taken for granted. Also, the book's message is about empowering women to make better choices for themselves, and not settling for anything less than what they deserve.
The agreement was (not as a generalization):
- Saudi men should marry between 28 and 30 yrs old; as that's the age they are willing to marry and still maintain a healthy perspective towards women.
Before that, they r too young/immature, and will get bored sooner.
After that, they r either unwilling to get married for multiple reasons (e.g. cynicism), or they r very set in their ways; they r beyond sharing with anyone.
- Saudi women should marry between 23 and 26 yrs old; after completing uni and working, thus knowing themselves.
Before that they r at risk of losing their character and becoming cast into someone else's life.
After they risk becoming very picky.
Basically all the ladies want a gentleman, i.e. a man's man who is also gentle and not gay.
Also, some of the ladies discussed the idea of marrying a younger man as an option to avoid playa's and confirmed bachelors.
The major elements I stressed were staying positive, as energy attracts similar energy, and taking action: whether changing one's perspective to get different results, or making a move to establish interest, and moving on if the interest isn't reciprocated.
You cant let life pass you by, waiting for it to happen to you, you have to take action to live.
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